Loss of libido is a common problem. However, not everyone tries to solve it. Not taken seriously, reduced interest in making love can definitely poison your life… What does loss of libido mean? Is it lack of interest in sexual relations, or the inability to reach orgasm? Reduced sex drive can result from physical conditions and pathological issues. Such factors as sex constitution of a patient, his or her age, psychoemotional condition and hormonal status are important when making a diagnosis. Low libido is, in the first place, loss of interest in sexual relations. At the same time some physiological responses can remain, e.g. morning or even spontaneous erection, individual at any separate case. When a person has sexual arousal, and can even reach an orgasm, feeling at the same time no sexual interest, can we call it loss of libido? No, this is another case of sexual desire. Sometimes it can be one sign of pornophilia – addiction to the pornography. A lot of men, who regularly use Internet, have such problems.

In what cases low libido can be treated as a serious disorder? The possible causes of a pathological form of reduced sexual desire are disorders in organ systems in the human body. Low libido is a symptom, just like a temperature, of an illness that should be healed. The situation is more difficult when there is no pathology. Different people treat their health in different ways. Some people with lung cancer continue smoking; avoid consulting a doctor, choosing to numb the pain with alcohol. At the same time other people visit their dentist every half a year without any signs of toothache. Regular sexual life is an index of good health state and the most pleasant form to keep fit. Nobody has died from lack of sex. But I can list probable consequences of long abstinence: myoma, mastopathy, and adenoid tumor. Some people consider reduced sex desire to be a serious problem, while others take it easy. From my own point of view, the second case means that a person deprives himself of full sexual life.

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Is low libido a frequent complaint among the patients? 50 Percent of patients who seek help from sexologists complain on reduced sex drive. The signs of low libido include anorgasmia (lack of orgasms), vaginismus (fear of sexual intercourse), sexual and psychological disorders. How one can treat the problem? It depends on a person, each case is individual. Pathogenetic treatment deals with causes. A comprehensive approach includes the analysis of life style, psychohygiene, relations. Roles of partners, as well as their erogenous zones are thoroughly studied; a system of “sex launching” is developed; a course of special physical exercises and physiotherapy is prescribed. Pharmacotherapy and psychotherapeutic methods are wide-spread. Such approach shows success rates at 80–90%. According to the common opinion, disorders with sex drive are mostly female problems. What do you think, who is more subject to it – men or women? Considering that a male hormone testosterone is responsible for sexual health and sex drive, libido level in men should be higher than in women. But from my point of view, reduced libido levels in comparison with a norm in men and women are approximately equal. However, in the last 15 years the representatives of the stronger sex have started to lose their positions, especially in large cities. Which “norm” is that than?

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The conventional physiological rhythm implies the wish and the ability to have sexual intercourse 2 or 3 times a week in favorable conditions. However, the fluctuations are possible. Sexual desire is influenced by a wide range of factors, e.g. illnesses; sleep disorders; chronic mental exhaustion; novelty of relations. Are there any connections between loss of libido and way of life? The principle is: worse is less and vice versa; but, of course, the norms of your age and constitution should not be exceeded. What are main causes of the problem for both men and women? Regular sexual routine contributes to a lack of sexual desire in men, when his partner turns into “mother” or “friend” instead of being a lover. Quite often my female patients are sure that their husbands have disorders and cannot perform their masculine duties. Therefore they are trying to solve the problem with the medical help; while the true cause is Internet and masturbation.

The most common causes of sexual dysfunction in women include mental and physical exhaustion, especially after giving birth. Lack of sleep is also directly linked to decreased libido. Sex drive is harmed by mechanical, coarse and primitive sexual relations. Unfortunately, jokes about “ceiling contemplation” during sexual intercourse have an obvious basis. How long do women suffer from low sexual desire after having a baby? The rehabilitation period can last up to three years. But improvements are visible after 6 months. If after that period of time a woman still suffers from low libido I advise her to consult a sexologist, as this can lead to desactualisation of sex behavior (decreased meaning of sex in a person’s life) and partial loss of sexual skills. In such situations men withdraw in a shell, and sometimes (especially at age between 40 and 50) this process is irreparable. Some men find mistresses, complaining that their wives show neither attention nor love. The situation is especially tragic when men suggest living separately in the moment when his child needs both parents. Is it possible that both spouses feel tired from each other?

When people are not interested in each other, their sexual desire certainly disappears. It is really important to understand that one should care about his or her relationship with the spouse not only before the wedding but for life. If both partners understand that simple rule, they can save their marriage and enrich relationship. I have elaborated a special program, which is called “the second honeymoon”. According to my observations, a lot can be improved in time. I would even say, quite often couples confess, that their second honeymoon was better than the first one.

The most “dreadful” pathology for the stronger sex is perhaps the erectile dysfunction, when a man becomes unable to perform sexually. It seriously hurts man’s pride and self-confidence. Despite the fact that sexual disorders don't influence on general physiological state, don't make feel physically worse, and don't cause pains, the negative psychological impact is difficult to overestimate: men become depressed, dispirited, unsociable, and as a result they draw into their shell.

Moreover, such disorders influence social life, as they create tense atmosphere in family relationships. The problem is that not every man dares to consult a sexual pathologist about his “troubles”. These fears are completely unfounded, as modern medicines can quickly bring man’s harmonious sex life back and at the same time recover his shaken self-conceit and mental equilibrium.

Having taken into consideration the importance of healthy sex life, specialists in sexual medicine conducted recently a laborious practical research, which allowed them to investigate in details such a delicate issue as the penile erection. It turned out that erection is mediated by special enzymes and nitric oxide, which is released during sexual arousal. A complicated enzymatic chain of reactions causes a relaxation of smooth muscle fibers in arteries, which provide blood supply to the penis. As a result the arteries dilate, and cavernous bodies (anatomic tissues which form a penis) fill up with blood and enlarge, and erection is obtained. Medications for erectile dysfunction which have been lately used in pharmacology, concentrate on this given enzymatic process. One of these medications is Cialis.

Cialis is not as widely known as Viagra or Impaza yet, but it is inferior to neither of these in its effectiveness. Moreover, Cialis has certain advantages over the given medications. Thus, Tadalafil, active ingredient of Cialis, starts acting within twenty minutes of intake, while by taking Viagra one may feel the effects after no less than one hour. In addition to that, the effects and potential of Cialis last up to thirty six hours, that is to say, during this period of time after taking the pill a patient is fit for a sexual intercourse, whereas Viagra acts only for four hours. This given peculiarity of Tadalafil is extremely important for the men, who prefer making love spontaneously, adding special thrill to their relationships with a beloved woman. According to a confidential survey, “scheduled sex” is not acceptable for a vast majority of men: when deciding between Cialis and Viagra, only 10 percent of patients chose the latter one. Meanwhile, the effectiveness of these two medications is nearly the same.

Another advantage of Cialis is its good performance regardless of time of the day, of food, and of alcohol. Many experts consider this compatibility with spirits to be rather a drawback though.

The medication is safe to use, but nevertheless some side effects are possible, such as headache, indigestion (diarrhea), blood flow to face and neck, back pain, and vertigo. Uncommon side effects include allergy at hypersensitivity to active ingredients.

Cialis should not be prescribed or taken by patients who suffered from a stroke, a heart attack, a heart failure or other anginal illnesses during preceding months. However, this precaution depends not on the peculiarities of Cialis, but on the fact that in this case one should abstain from any sexual activities.

Besides, the use of Cialis is contraindicated to anyone allergic to the ingredients in the tablet and patients under 18 years old.

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Force and duration of man's and female sex experiences partly depend on ability meaningly to supervise the muscular reactions. The important role one of the perineum muscles, located between an anus and an urethra plays thus, a Levator ani - a muscle lifting an anus. If this muscle is weak from a birth or on other causes (at some women it is stretched after childbirth), it reduces intensity of an orgasm. In 1950 gynecologist Arnold Kegel has offered the women experiencing after childbirth of difficulty with the control over an urination, special exercises. There were, that these exercises which have received the name "kegels", not only stop a consensual urination, but also raise a sex tonus. Now them recommend both to women, and men.

• First, kegels raise degree of comprehension of the senses and the experiences localised in generative organs.
• Secondly, they improve their blood supply.
• Thirdly, raise sex reactivity.
• Fourthly, help to recover a muscle tone of a vagina after childbirth.
• Fifthly, enlarge conscious self-checking over an orgasm.

How it is necessary to do them?

To find the Levator ani, it is necessary during urination effort of will to intercept this process (with the placed feet), and then again to renew it. A muscle which intercepts an urine stream - you will feel its strain, - and there is that. Or imagine, that it is urgently necessary for you in a toilet, and still it is necessary to reach it, and notice, you thus exert what muscles. After you will find a muscle, start exercises.

"Slow kegels" - to compress, some time to keep, and then to relax a muscle.

"Fast kegels" - the same in as much as possible fast rate.

Exercise of all pelvic range - to exert so as if you try to involve water in generative organs, and then to push out it back (Thus stomach muscles will become stronger also).

Each of these exercises becomes on 10 times 3 times a day; in a week to enlarge number of exercises to 15, and then - to 20 and 25 times. To hasten it is not necessary, as in the beginning the muscle will get tired and can be ill. As at any gymnastics, breath should be equal. Gradually exercises will become a habit, and it will be possible to do them where and when necessary: laying in bed, standing in a queue, watching TV. From the side it is absolutely imperceptible. According to authoritative experts, exercises yield good result. The primitive view identifying a man's orgasm with an ejaculation, forces men to aspire to lead up each intercourse "up to the end". But man's possibilities in this sense are circumscribed and besides with the years decrease. The conscious ejaculation control to the aid comes.